How To Attract That Special Someone…

When it comes to attracting that special person, what do others view as major turn ons? If you have already found that special someone, what were you attracted to? Was it their scent, their intelligence, or their witty sense of humor?

Listed below are a few things that people find attractive in another person. Some you might agree with, others, you may not, but it’s worth checking out…

The Eyes

Most of us would agree that a person with kind eyes can show us a small peek into who they might be as a person. If someone has hard eyes or ones that look exhausted; it could be a major turn off. A lot of us want a simple life, not one that is filled with more drama. People that have those gentle, kind eyes would appear less threatening, thus making them more attractive toward others.

A White Smile

When someone smiles, and those beautiful white teeth come out; you know they take care of themselves. No one likes to see butter colored or plaque covered teeth. A beautiful smile doesn’t mean you have to have perfectly straight teeth, just clean ones. And if you brush and floss regularly, you should have pearly white teeth. A good smile can go a long way, so it’s important to have good oral habits.


Are we not dazzled by an intelligent person? I know I am (if they are not arrogant about it) If they are humble and smart ―Whoa! Gotta love that! It’s refreshing when someone can comment on current events, or woo the crowd on trivia night. Intelligence doesn’t mean we all have to be brainiacs like Einstein, just someone who stay current with the world we live in. It never hurts to READ a book, watch the news, look over the newspaper, or tune into a documentary now and again. Remember: Knowledge is power. 

Sense of Humor

People love people who can laugh at themselves. A major turn on for most women is a man with a great sense of humor. Individuals who have a laid back or carefree spirit says a lot about that person. No one likes a Debbie Downer or Buzz Killington. Live, laugh, love and then laugh some more, right?.

Physical Attractiveness

Of course, not all of us were born with Raquel Welch’s body or have the time to work out like a guy from the Spartacus series, but our outer appearance does matter. Everyone owes it to themselves to eat healthy, exercise and take pride in what they do and who they are as a person. It’s important to be clean, groomed and pleasantly dressed if you want others to be attracted to you. Sometimes we only get one chance to make a first impression, so remember to make it a good one.


Every once and awhile someone will walk past me, and their scent will linger long after they have gone. It’s either leaves a good memory or an appalling one. How we smell can be a major turn on. Take your time when choosing a perfume or cologne. They have so many good ones on the market nowadays, and you want to pick the ones that fit your lifestyle and personality.  

Here are some honorable mentions:

  • Respectful
  • Kind Hearted
  • Pleasant Voice
  • Silky Hair
  • Good Manners
  • Thoughtfulness
  • Generous
  • Self Confident


I believe, it’s best to show your real side by being yourself and hopefully, they will do the same.